Reflection of Maitri Internship

At the end of work last Thursday, I was caught off-guard with just how quickly this summer has passed. The Singhs surprised us and ordered samosas and a cake to celebrate the time of each intern and volunteer at Maitri this summer and spoke kind words reflecting on our experience. I leave Delhi for the U.S. late Tuesday night and it really had not struck me that I am physically leaving this internship, the projects, the experiences, and all the amazing people that I met who are now like family. Home is coming soon and although I am definitely excited to see my family and friends and start my next journey in life, I will miss my time with Maitri and everything I love about India-- more so than any other travel experience I have had. As I think about talking with friends and family back home about my internship experience, I realize I have too much to say in response to some of the questions I am sure I'll be asked—so I’m dedicating this blog entry to summarizing my experience this summer in response to the questions I expect back home.

What did you do on a daily basis?

My weekday routine varied each month when I had new projects and depending on how many other interns or volunteers were present. Waking up became more challenging as the summer progressed. I went from having at least an hour of spare time to rushing out the door after eating breakfast (usually Duliya, Poha, Upma, Halwa, or eggs) prepared by Shakuntala. One consistent factor in my morning routine was that my brain never fully functioned until I drank my morning chai… early afternoon chai… late afternoon chai… and if I was lucky evening chai.



We are expected to be at the office at 10:00 a.m. each day and stay until about 5:30 p.m. During this time we work on projects; my major initiatives included conceptualization and recommendations for the new website as well as a draft for the online content, management of social media, analyzing research studies, etc. Around 1:00 p.m. everyone usually took a half-hour to eat lunch and catch up on the day. I loved becoming friends with members of the Maitri staff including Bhim, Silky, Anita, Mr. Mathur, Resham, Rajrani, Deepak and my intern companions during this time. During the first two-months when the volunteer program with Sarthak, Divya, Jill and Hannah had not yet begun, I tutored a set of children ages 7-8 and another set ages 12-13 in math and english. The children were fun, eager to learn, and interactive-- easily one of my most memorable experiences.



Each day in the office was a little different in terms of tasks and duties and even people since we had visitors for a few days at a time, such as Dr. Joe Thomas, in addition to the intern and volunteer personnel that rotated. After work we would go home, relax, eat dinner (again prepared by the amazing Shakuntala) and plan the rest of our night.

What did you think about Maitri? How does an internship with it compare to the experience you would have had with NGOs back home or in the rest of the world?

Maitri has all the ingredients that make a NGO great; it also has unique aspects that make it unlike other organizations. Maitri has great people in terms of its staff including the members I named earlier and its executive leadership including General and Mrs Singh, Sonal, and Mr. Jolly. Each person is dedicated to the projects and causes that give Maitri purpose. Every member of the organization has gone out of his or her way to make us (the interns) feel like we're part of the Maitri family. The projects are all genuine and meaningful to the community.



Interning at Maitri meant using analytical research skills, learning how to adapt for each task (e.g. tutoring), and being a part of the fieldwork in Vrindavan, Paharganj, and Sonia Vihar. The main things that made Maitri a unique internship compared to other opportunities is the sense of family that emerges and the extra effort put in by the Singhs to ensure that we experienced India as much as possible. Seriously though-- how many internship opportunities include the chance to not only travel to amazing places like Vrindavan and Amritsar (see previous blog entries) but also receive explanations of the significance of everything, have meetings with members of parliament and historical specialists, attend cultural events at places like the New Delhi Rotary Club, have secure housing in close proximity to the office in a major metropolitan city, and the list goes on. Essentially the Singhs and their above and beyond execution of hosting the internship program made Maitri an unbeatable experience.



What did you do for fun?

We had fun in many different settings: seeing the city/country, socializing with friends and co-workers, and immersing with Indian culture. Long-story short I had way more fun than I can explain in just a few paragraphs.

* In the Office:

I mentioned the family feeling within the Maitri office, the interactive and entertaining children, and the lunch breaks; fun in the office also included random jigs during a quick break (I sincerely hope the Jeevan, Hannah, and Jill rendition of Soulja Boy's "Crank That" will end up on the internet one day...). During lunch breaks sometimes we played music based games like Antakshari and even got into deep discussions with the staff about cultural comparisons and differences between the U.S. and India. Needless to say, the office was a fun place to be in and work.

* Good Old Fashioned Tourism

We went around to MANY of the renowned sites in Delhi but I can honestly say that I have a great deal left to see and learn about Delhi. We took trips to Gandhi Smriti, Rajghat, Lotus Temple, India Gate, Chandni Chowk, Sarojini Nager, Janpat, and other famous classical shopping areas, Qutab Minar, various Parks (Lodhi Garden, Nehru Park, etc), the westernized malls (Select City, DLF Promenade, etc), religious areas for Hindus (Akshaydharm), Sikhs (Bangla Gurudwara), and Muslims (Nizam Uddin); Outdoor areas like Canaut Place, Priya Market, Khan Market, and the list goes on.

I have family in India so I took a weekend trips to go visit in Chandigarh and Lucknow in addition to the trips planned by the Singhs to Amritsar, Vrindavan, and Agra.

* Cultural Immersion

My parents are both Indian and I had been to India previously with my mother; however, coming alone opened me up to the culture in a way I never experienced before. I saw several Bollywood movies in theaters including “Once Upon a Time in Mumbai” "Rajneeti" "I Hate Love Stories" "Raaven" "Udaan" "House Full" and "Kites"; 99% of what we ate was traditional Indian cuisine often cooked by Shakuntala and at times we went out-- I will never forget our delicious Dhaba experiences-- more on food later. We did lots of singing from Karoake lounges, where Jeevan became VIP since everyone was a huge fan of his vocal talents, to singing in taxis, cars, and with friend.



We talked to a variety of people and my Hindi drastically improved (thanks to people in the office coaching me here and there). Each of us grew closer to Indian culture than ever before. I am thankful we spent a great deal of time exploring India and getting immersed in the rich, amazing culture.

Why does food get it's own question?

The food was SO amazing. I am near tears when I realize that I won't be eating a few mangos a day back home-- even if I do it just won't taste or be the same. I admit I am probably legitimately addicted to chai (which will also suffer in quality back home) so I apologize to everyone in the next 2 months that I am cranky to as I go through withdrawals. I will never forget the (unhealthy but when in India...) taste of "desi khana" and "dhabas" including Parantawala's gobi, daal, gager, aloo filled parantas, the unique, unbeatable taste of Indo-Chinese cuisine, the home cooked meals prepared with fresh produce that tastes fresher than produce back home, and the endless unique preparations of common dishes that kept us from ever getting bored with a particular meal. My personal favorite meals were the ones as dinner guests at someone’s home. The Singh’s had us over a few times and each dish was great.

This is getting long... wrap this up with key takeaways.

Ok this entry is indeed long enough and although I have plenty more to say, I will wrap it up with some main final thoughts.

*** The people I am sharing this experience with are amazing. Chelsea is one of the smartest, most dedicated workers I have ever met, and has contributed to the fun and cultural enjoyment of the internship. I'm beyond impressed with the amount of Hindi she has picked up in such a short time and how she embraced many aspects of the culture with an open-mind and great interest. Jeevan is smart, hard-working and one of the most fun and outgoing people I have ever met. Seriously he can talk and befriend ANYONE… and he does so. He has been here the whole three months with me and we live near each other back home so I am hopeful we will keep in touch. Jill and Viraj are beyond impressive and I am excited to see the amazing things they will accomplish in the upcoming years of college. The people I spent time with made the experience even better.



*** One could spend a lifetime traveling and discovering India. I can tell people with confidence I have been to India and seen some great sites like the Taj Mahal, Golden Temple, been around Delhi, etc; I have "kind-of" seen "some" areas of North India but could easily take another 10 vacations to India and still have only seen part of the picture. Every city has its own flavor; every culture and geographic area takes time to experience and each one is worth getting to know. I spent 3 months in Delhi and made some short trips to amazing areas but I could easily come back and spend 3 months in west India seeing Rajasthan; the south seeing Hydrabad, Goa, and Kerala; the east and see Assam and Manipur; I also want to see the major metropolitan areas like Kolkata, Chennai, and Mumbai.

*** The NGO sector is important, challenging, and fulfilling work that requires dedication, teamwork, and vision. Maitri has set a great example for me since the organization as it stands is a culmination of a vision to help people and enact change in the community; it exemplifies teamwork and dedication from the staff, executive leadership, and interns to accurately research and learn about the relevant issues and populations. I never have doubted the passion that the Singhs have for the work they are doing nor have I ever doubted the fact that they love the work they are involved with.




I am thankful to the Hinckley Institute of Politics for setting me up with this great opportunity and I am especially thankful to the Maitri Family for all I have learned, seen, and gained from this experience. I have no doubt Maitri will continue its success and I cannot wait to stop by and see the progress when I come back to visit in the next couple of years.